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Marriage – Prison or Paradise?

Introduction
Once upon a time, it was a princess how lived in a castle upon a big mountain. One day, a prince came, riding on a golden horse. He was searching for the “Big love”...
Does reality look the same way? From the beginning we have been learnt to see “love” as if it was the aim of life. The standard meaning is that you can’t be happy and live your life alone. It’s nearly unacceptable to be single if you’re 30+, but why?

Over 25% of children under 17 have parents who are divorced exposes Statistical central department. But near 50% of all adults have done a divorce. It’s more often that children under 5 year are living with both parents. The statistics shows that kids between the age of 1-17 years are 10% only living with their mothers and just 1% with their fathers. Statistical central department of Sweden shows that even after 2 years in marriage, 47.000 couples are already divorced. After 6 years marriage, the number of divorcing couple is over three times higher, 170.000. The number of divorcing couples just getting higher within the years 368.000 marriages are broken after 25 years. Do the statistics show us the “never lasting relationship?”

Although it’s a nice dream to live a life in happiness with kids, house, car and dog. I believe that every person needs environment change, inspiration and new impressions to develop the personality. I don’t believe that you can develop your self, healthy in a relationship if you don’t include those things. It’s important to not forget about our liberty.

In former days marriage were a survival act. The children became their parent’s safety net when they get older and they created a safe future. Today we can’t live our life the same way, because our survival is all about our career. We’re today more independent and egoistic. To survive, we need money – a good career is salving this problem.
Another thing is that when you’re in a marriage you need to show your partner consideration. You can’t go your own way.
My view of the matter, I told you before, is that we need to develop our self’s. Our personalities are changing within the years and we need to fill other needs. Can you live happy with another person and still develop your self? Don’t we open up our self when we are in safety solidarity? I can see the connection of the humanity necessity needs. You want to feel required.

“He was searching for the big love…” Is there really a soul mate for each and every person?
The fairytale life we want to live don’t exist, not eve...